I know a friend who was a doctor suffering from stomach cancer, only 3 months to 6 months of life. Friends is a large body of senior executives, career success, family happiness, suddenly aware of their own cancer, temporary Wannianjuhui, decided not to tell his wife and daughter, alone bear the suffering of the sick, and use only the timing of the funeral.
"Very strange to say, check out the cancer of the beginning of the day, usually cautious and conscientious efforts of the cause of depletion, have become important is not, by ordinary negligence on the part of relatives and friends suddenly become very important, almost one day and want to They separate. Also think about all of a sudden from out of reality, think of death, I was thinking about the world after death, I was thinking about how to meet the coming of death. "A friend said.
A lot of friends suffering from mental and physical torture, one and a half months later, in another hospital after a precise check and found that it is misdiagnosed, his stomach is no problem.
"Strange, from the doctors told me that stomach cancer was the beginning of the day, my stomach pain on a daily basis can not, to eat a lot of pain medicine; misdiagnosis is to determine, on the stomach suddenly healed." A friend said that the soul can be seen The force is very immense.
Misdiagnosis know, he's the one and a half to torment his wife to tell his wife: "No wonder you come to one and a half months I am particularly kind, never had air-sheng, ah would be something like this."
He told a friend what happened, friends are filled with indignation, which asked him to a hospital, where doctors should be sued, a request for compensation. He said: "In fact, I am grateful to the doctors that he fully opened up my thinking so that I can think of the past, have not thought about the issue; he made me like one dead, many of these activities are mind is no longer a dedicated . "
However, he shocked most of his time in the country's daughter. When he told his daughter after the misdiagnosis, his daughter asked him: "Dad, you will not live 3 months, then what you can Huoduo Jiu?"
Another daughter asked him: "Dad, if you do not know can Huoduo Jiu, you do not change anything, and it was misdiagnosed before what difference will it make?"
By stimulating the daughter of a friend, life's attitude changed completely. He said: "The intention to work hard, it is on this side; intentions more affection to their loved ones, this is the other side. To deal with urgent matters, it is on this side; focus on important things, which is on the other side.'s Accession to the WTO's business career, which is On this side; life and death of the relief operation, which is on the other side ... that ... is my teacher, doctor, I am from the coast to the other side; my daughter is my teacher, help me to break the boundaries of the two sides. "
I jokingly said: "This seems to get through the Renduermo ah."
A friend said: "No, this is the 'ape the sound of cross-strait can not cry, Adventure million over mountains'. Physically and mentally are the easy calm."
And bid farewell to friends after returning home on the road, I think we usually do very little thinking of the life and death issue, and we spent too much time on unnecessary things, life is so short, we have time to reflect on how much it Limited death?
Home, I opened the bright lights, darkness and light to see the same space, the point is very different from the lights on. The bright and the dark heart of hearts what is different? Was the only point of light it. Lighting in the hearts of the people, the dark can not be confined him, not to mention the emotional turmoil of this?
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